the biggest proof of love isnโt necessarily how much attention a man gives you. itโs what heโs willing to confront within himself because he wants you in his life. wanting someone is easy. choosing them intentionally is different. it means facing your fears, dealing with your unresolved issues, becoming more emotionally available, protecting what youโre building, and consistently showing up. the rare part isnโt finding someone who wants you. itโs finding someone willing to do the inner work required to keep the relationship healthy.