@AdamasNemesis@MurrayHillGuy1 Oh i hate Miami with a passion, but it taught me that even me being an extreme introvert, could make a life for myself outside boring ass Connecticut. I made friends just fine in every city I moved to.
In other words busy career-driven people end up dating those who are in their circles because those are the only people they typically have access to.
Does not change the fact that men could care less if that person was a secretary, an intern, or a barista.
I don't think men are consciously filtering for a woman who makes more money, to be fair, but for whatever reason (likely cultural/IQ/SES) high-earning men do tend to marry high-earning women! The CEO who wifes up a barista is just not a common thing.
@EGaffes@livtalley_coach It just disqualifies a woman as marriage material. Doesn't mean you're worthless.
Same if I had a criminal past and went to prison, did my time and now a job chooses not to hire me as result. I'm not that man anymore but I'll always pay for the consequences of past actions
@livtalley_coach No I understand your point. I personally wouldn't use that term to someone matchmaking me.
But you're condemning the term he used as it's more damaging than the behavior of a promiscuous woman. That's the alarming thing.
He's labeled a bad guy because he used a slang?
@SteelyDanMxmlst@livtalley_coach You are more disgusted at a term than the actual grotesque behavior of the woman.... You're a hedonistic feminist bud.
@Circle_of_Salt@GaiasAdventures@Bunny_ngl You dodged the point. Are adult women capable of making their own decisions or should we have them consult a man before making to ensure it's the right decision?
Since only men are culpable and women can be manipulated at will, that means they are mentally weaker correct?
@malibu114@CaitlinCloud9@MurrayHillGuy1 Yeah i genuinely disagree. Why can't people simply take it slow and get to know each other?
It's either we're official after 3 dates or I'm going to whore around until you decide?
This is what sucks for men dating in this day and age
@malibu114@CaitlinCloud9@MurrayHillGuy1 Correct. Which is precisely my point.
If a woman wants a relationship with someone she's seeing - why not simply communicate her intentions instead of resorting to a loophole to sleep around?
Would u marry someone who sucks at communication?