Donna

My favorite things are books, cats, coffee and football!

[Donna @malibu114]

@Chnge2Wrld @Recentr3 I agree with this wholeheartedly with one exception. If a virgin gets married, they wont know until afterwards whether they dislike or are neutral on sex. That can't necessarily be planned for because it's an unknown until too late.

[Donna @malibu114]

@sauvyb76 @blondspacecat @NoblestCalling I cannot imagine.
When the pill came out my father said she told them in Italian that "I love every one of my children, but if that was available when I was having children, half of you wouldn't be here".

[Donna @malibu114]

@BennedictB78545 @zny05 @venom1s Height and money are low on my list too. I'm about 5'1 so practically everyone is taller than me, and I've had relationships with guys who made more, made the same, and made less. I don't care how much or how little they make. If it's enough to provide for themselves I'm good.

[Donna @malibu114]

@itssaramuat @udrajj Same. That right there is what I see when I envision a hot body. I'm a walking skeleton, so my views on bodies must be skewed.

[Donna @malibu114]

@Talyn89926595 @michellmybell1 @W0LFs_Lair @askaya Just curious, men almost always refer to any change after marraige as "the bait and switch". Doesn't that imply trickery and deceit?

[Donna @malibu114]

@ChristofLot666 @XenniallTeach @DavidRobinr0 @askaya Chapter 16. Notes sources.
https://t.co/maXEPvoKC9

[Donna @malibu114]

@PelConsulting @askaya It is actually for the best. We should not want nor encourage people who are not equipped to raise children properly, to do so. That causes more harm than good to that next generation.

[Donna @malibu114]

@DoubleBrewski @lastpowerranger @askaya Some people are just not equipped to do that properly. Let those people be and let the ones who can and want to do that be the ones to do so. Not everyone SHOULD be parents.

[Donna @malibu114]

@askaya I get what you're saying, but dealing with elderly people you'd be surprised how many are lonely, miserable, unfulfilled and depressed because their kids don't call or visit and go basically very little to no contact with them.

[Donna @malibu114]

@mikemad28998295 @Kristinartz Oh that pic was me at 35. That's 20 years ago. I don't straighten my hair or wear contacts anymore. But thank you. 😊

[Donna @malibu114]

@mikemad28998295 @Kristinartz Spot on. Italian decent on both sides of the family.

[Donna @malibu114]

@mikemad28998295 @Kristinartz BTW she was 27 or 28 there. Dad was 16 years older. He waited until his 40s to settle down, and women his age weren't going to start having kids so he went younger. My mom was divorced with my older sister, so he knew she was fertile. Me & younger sister are 15 months apart.

[Donna @malibu114]

@PraefectusCas @the_fem_tm I want someone on my level. I'm completely mid and fine with it. The last thing I want in a relationship is having to deal with other women throwing themselves at my man knowing I can never compete. I saw what a mismatch can be like with my own parents. Don't want that at all.

[Donna @malibu114]

@VSaxena20 @the_fem_tm Every time I empathize with the men, someone comes along like this. Why do you even want a woman? You obviously hate us in general. Get yourself a surrogate to have a kid with, hire a maid/nanny (preferably male so as not to ruin the child) and buy a fleshlight. You'll be set.

[Donna @malibu114]

@BishopTrae32818 @KILLTOPARTY Kids are young.

[Donna @malibu114]

@Woodymekg @SarahTr52165351 @KILLTOPARTY Grown? He said both his kids are young. I wouldn't be surprised if they were high school sweethearts who have been together since they were 15/16.

[Donna @malibu114]

@dropshitter @hollowearthterf @KILLTOPARTY They got married 18 years ago and he says both his kids are young.

[Donna @malibu114]

@TDubbyuh @LukeDashjr @RealDianeYap And honestly the same to you. I know we are approaching this from opposite perspectives, and while I don't share this issue personally, I do try to think like or empathize with others. You too have kept it respectful. I know I can come across a little rough, so it's appreciated.

[Donna @malibu114]

@LukeDashjr @TDubbyuh @RealDianeYap You do realize the number two can be halved, right? I'm not saying that's me, my number is slightly higher, but don't assume because someone says half, the original number must be high.

[Donna @malibu114]

@LukeDashjr @TDubbyuh @RealDianeYap I had a child when I was married. In the 30 years since, I haven't ever wanted more children thus no need to remarry. But, yes I have had a couple of LTR. I am 55. It took me until 40 to find "the one". I'm not ashamed of any of my relationships. Those experiences led me to him.