having your “firsts” in your 20s is nothing to be ashamed of. first kiss, first date, first partner, first time having sex, etc. it’s actually very normal to experience those things for the first time in your 20s. there’s nothing to be ashamed of!! it’s more common than you think
At my big ass age I’m not dealing with no one that don’t know how to pick up their phone. That’s out. You make time for what you wanna make time for. No excuses.