my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.
and suddenly i became the person who takes forever to reply, likes to be alone, will ghost you, doesn’t care about anything, and will not care if we fade away
People who don’t actively use TikTok don’t get it. I learn so many recipes, plan dates, learn make-up hacks, have made travel it itineraries, keep up with current events and watched so many relatable stories on there. Its so much more than dances, it’s just the best app ever 😟
As your friend….I AM NEVER TIRED OF YOUR LIFE. I hate when my friends are like “I don’t wanna keep bothering you with the same shit”…girl, if this shit weighs on your chest everyday, I do not care. SPILL. Because feeling like you gotta stand in that alone is never how I—
Idc how cocky it sounds, but I don’t miss out on people. People miss out on me, & I mean that. I don’t miss out on people because I appreciate them from the jump. I show love and put effort into our relationship/friendship from when it starts. I don’t have to lose out to know!
This sounds FCKED up but it has to be said 🗣️ Sometimes you HAVE to throw the things you did for people back in their face because they will literally treat you like you never broke your back for them! I WAS THERE FOR you when the world was against you. I ROOTED for you. I RESPECTED you. I CARED for you. I RISKED a lot for you. I LOVED you. It was ME not them other people!!! "Well I didn't ask you "Well you didn't stop me neither ‼️‼️‼️
Its's RAW AF seeing yourself become a new person. You ain't tolerating the same sh!t, you don't fw people the same, you've gotten closer with your inner you, you focused on your goals, you takin better care of yourself. I love it here 💕
i’m finally coming to peace with the fact that you can’t keep tripping over what you can’t control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of how you feel. Don’t lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong
People talk about how great it is to end a toxic relationship. But no one talks about how much work you need to do to heal, unlearn the mistreatment you've normalized and the toxic behavior you've tolerated, and remember who you are and what you deserve.
Find someone who will love the depressed you, happy you, growing you, worst you, and indecisive you. Without calling you crazy or toxic for not being able to understand you