I wouldnโt consider everything I eat a โwholeโ food since thereโs a huge variation to how bad something processed can be. Like for example, I eat lots of peanut butter which is processed but I wouldnโt consider it unhealthy when you eat an appropriate amount. Rice, beans, avocado, peanut butter. Splash of olive oil in like almost any dish for more calories and fats. Chicken thighs, tofu, cheap fish like tilapia. Bananas, etc etc.
Belly rolls are attractive, back rolls are attractive. You donโt need a 10 inch waist with a 50 inch butt to be attractive. You are HOT โจ๐ I feel more attractive at 230+ then I ever felt at 190 ๐ฅต๐
Also, Iโm thinking at cons I want to wear a cute dress with my head and then Iโll make paws and a tail. I want to walk around and give people flowers and be cute ๐ฅบ๐ I miss doing stuff like that