One thing my besties will never have to worry about again now that I’m in their life is claw clips. I’ll be damned if my bestie has to buy a claw clip for herself ever again
@roijadian1 @MeetMorganE @dejthadoll And you do deserve the same respect you give!! You deserve to feel loved the way you give love. Only reason i acknowledge this now is bc of therapy and self reflection and what not. I wouldnt label people pleasing as bad, it’s a defense mechanism we’re taught early on 😌
@MeetMorganE @roijadian1@dejthadoll Not saying that all pisces do this or that we have bad intentions or lack taking responsibility. Im saying that gaslighting isn’t linear, and that projecting a false self can fall under that catagory.
@MeetMorganE @roijadian1@dejthadoll That’s where the gaslighting comes in. We see it as them neglecting us because we put so much effort in. So when we mess up, as everyone does, we tend to deflect those emotions instead of taking accountability for our actions.