Divorce rates are high in this generation for one simple reason. People don't understand what marriage actually is. Social media made everyone believe there's always someone better out there, a richer man, a prettier woman, a more exciting life, but comparison kills loyalty.
People want weddings, not marriages. They'll spend months planning a ceremony and zero time learning how to communicate when things get hard. Nobody knows how to argue anymore.
They yell, they shut down, they run instead of learning how to fight for each other. Money pressure exposes weak foundations. Instead of building together, couples turn on each other, men stop leading, women stop respecting their men, temptation is everywhere. Now everyone uses therapy words to escape accountability. Everything is toxic, everything is trauma. Nothing is ever their fault.
There's no community pressure to stay married anymore. No elders saying work it out. Just friends saying leave. You deserve better. Kids became optional, sacrifice became outdated and vows became suggestions.
Marriage used to mean I'll suffer with you. Now it means I'll stay as long as I'm happy. And that's why divorce is high. Because people don't know how to suffer together.
They only know how to quit when excitement is no longer there.
We are in the trenches!!
APC: We now have 30 governors.
Nigerians: Wow.
APC: We also have 75 senators.
Nigerians: Omo.
APC: Over 230 HOR members o.
Nigerians: Na you dey hot.
APC: Not to brag but we now have over 10m registered members.
Nigerians: That’s very nice. Oya approve Real time transmission of electoral results, so that the world can see you are winning because people love you.
APC: Haaa, that’s too risky ooo.
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When you terminate an employee due to performance issues, office politics, or force them to resign by creating a toxic environment, remember this:
They will move on.
In a few months, they’ll find better opportunities, rebuild their confidence, and thrive elsewhere.
But they’ll never forget how you treated them.
How you shouted, humiliated, and misunderstood them, simply because your ego got in the way of basic empathy.
They might never speak about it.
But they’ll carry the scars, silently.
Power should never come at the cost of someone’s dignity.
If a police officer invites you to the station on a Friday over a petition, there’s a smart way to handle it:
Politely inform them you’re out of town and will be available on Monday.
Why?
Because weekend bail is not guaranteed, and you don’t want to spend Friday–Sunday as an unplanned “weekend tenant” at the station.
Many people don’t know their rights, and ignorance can be costly.
Key Tips:
(1) You have the right to request a convenient date to appear.
(2) Always go with a lawyer or at least inform one.
(3) Never ignore the invitation respond respectfully.
(4) Document your communication (call, text, or message).
Stay informed. Stay smart.
Legal knowledge is not for lawyers only, it’s for survival.