@TheQuartering This is fine. Teaching her to respect the firearm. Fear and nervousness is good. She'll get it. And after this, she'll be better than others.
If we're being honest... You don't decide what your done with. In reality men control everything and woman are lucky men are natural protectors, which gives woman a safe society. There are plenty of examples in the world where women have no rights and are seen as property. And there's nothing that women in those countries can do about it.