Just choose yourself. Because we in a society where ever we choose us. We are arrogant petty cheap narcissist ignorant. So keep on giving up on things. To point where nothing left
Life is all about giving up on things. You give up your wishes in childhood because if parents. Then you give your wants because of adulthood. Then you give up ypur emotions because of your partner. Then you give up yourself because of kids. Not once in life someone taught us to