it is draining to engage with people who think Iโm arguing or personally attacking them every time I try to solve an issue or express my emotions. it creates mental exhaustion. if someone canโt tolerate you asking clarifying questions and sharing how you feel, keep your distance.
I've successfully made a sourdough starter and now just want to spend my days baking bread , drinking tea and heavily encouraging the decline of capitalism while tending to my radishes .
Found out AFTER working all day that my t-shirt was on backwards - and ya boii still got compliments for being hella cute . Call me a fashionista cause I'm living outside the norms ๐ค๐ฝ
Understanding more and more that the statement stands true "if they talk shit about others to you, they talk shit about you to others." I'm over that low energy bullshit .
healthy friendships involve not agreeing with every decison the other person makes. they involve telling you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. it comes from a loving place of support for each otherโs well-being. true friendships ground you, they donโt enable you
"Some folk are dealt a bad hand. But you can't rely on another persons conscience to live the life you want to live. You make do with what you're given; you struggle on." pg 54 luminaries
Is my life stressful - depends . Do I literally create my own chaos by making decisions without a secured follow up plan , why yes , yes I do . Am I usually happier after making rash decisions , also yes . So fuck your opinions , that I simply did not ask for .
gonna love reaching for the tp after a nice long piss to find nothing is there .. no refills around .. and to know that you were the last dumb bitch to piss and didn't stock it . Drip dry it is .