Being with a malignant narcissist had a profound effect on me. Their projections acted as a mirror, and my natural ability for introspection allowed me to “clean up” certain aspects about myself that needed change. I believed her about myself, which meant I would take an honest look at what she claimed. Some things did contain some truth, and ultimately it was her projections that allowed me to figure her out.
It fomented a spiritual awakening and complete change of outlook and being.
I’d never wish my experience upon anyone, but it seemed necessary to propel spiritual growth, something I’d denied my entire life.
@delonperc And when you need help, there’s no one.
Honestly though, if this is how they did me they can all pound sand.
My new empire will be built of compassionate, empathetic, and kind people.
@wisdomXplorer I honestly hope you can heal someday. There’s a hurt little girl in there somewhere. And I forgive you completely.
NEVER CONTACT ME AGAIN
@ridhima_z Yep.
Me: “You’re a narcissist!”
Her: “you’re the narcissist”
Me: “then why do you hit me?”
Her: “that’s reactive abuse.”
They have a fucking answer for everything. Almost like they are programmed. No thinking involved.
Did you know that cats can hear 3 times louder than humans? Which makes it more impressive how effortlessly they manage to ignore you when you call them.
@WittyEchoes That’s a damn good question.
I realized I was missing out on the real me, and if you don’t like me for me you can suck it.
I think it was part of my love journey with myself.
I don't think we talk enough about how hard it is to find someone who is actually genuine. Not perfect, just real. No games, no hidden agenda. It's rare.