@Romy_Holland I imagine something like, they have worked on themselves and that created a new protector self part, that equates work = good, because accepting you have worked on yourself and actually failed prob is really painful.
@Aella_Girl I lived in a house with no washing machine for 1.5 years and fell in love with washing by hand. Like I did use washing machines for hardchore stuff like jeans and jumpers. But I washed my bedsheets once a week. it became therapeutic.
Ringing stuff out alone was not fun though
@Aella_Girl I've noticed that americans have what I consider an over attachment to germ avoidance. Like the constant hand sanitiser, over washing clothes, over showering, all food in fridges/containers, taking pills a any sign of sickness.
I don't think we're so obsessed in Europe.
@Aella_Girl Hmm okay dependent on the risk taken. There is not actual harm if the wife never find outs. But I personally think doing things in the knowledge your partner would be against, in SECRET, is most likely have negative consequences (possibly mostly in how you feel)