"I don't care what boxes we tick. There's no development at the [U.S.] youth stage."
@carlilloyd breaks down what she believes is fundamentally wrong with the U.S. soccer system on the latest episode of Kickin' It, streaming NOW on @paramountplus 🔥
Normalize not chasing after someone. Normalize allowing people to not choose you, and not forcing people to convince you. Mature love is a conscious choice. Not a pressured action.
this eclipse energy feels really heavy so i just wanted to say... what is yours will always belong to you. no matter what obstacle tries to get in the way. if you can envision it, then in some reality it already exists, so you can definitely achieve it. lastly...
4. Your partner should be your rock and best friend: yes, it's important to have a friend and sense of support in a partner, but we also need to build other structures of social support with friends and family. No single person can meet all our needs.
3. If my partner loves me, they'll never be attracted to anyone else: biological attraction is human nature. Being committed doesn't shut off our natural human instincts. Deception, secrecy, and negative intentions are red flags, not natural attraction.
You're in relationships with people where you're the one pushing to make it work, you feel exhausted, and are on call for other people's issues.
How To Stop Being A "Fixer":
Psychologist, Dr. Stephen Karpman created The Drama Triangle.
I found that this dynamic is in almost all dysfunctional relationships, and most of us don't even see it.
Here's what YOU can learn from it:
Mohammed Kudus was meant to receive a yellow card for his tribute to Christian Atsu but referee Pol van Boekel opted not to book him, telling the Ajax forward he understands "this is a bigger situation than football.”
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