Be in control of your life
or you will be controlled.
When you're in control, you can do anything.
When you're controlled, you will have to do what other people need you to do, whether you like it or not.
They don't care.
Teach your son this:
Fight when needed.
Speak with clarity.
Behave with discipline.
Control his stress.
Manage money.
Show kindness.
Respect women.
Do this, and his life becomes easier.