The embarrassment you get after telling everyone you found a good partner, then they turn out to be an avoidant, switch up on you and break your heart like it's nothing. Is unbelievable.
Luxuries we forget that are luxuries:
1. Your mom still around
2. Hot water
3. Feeling healthy
4. Peace of mind & heart
5. Perfect weather days
6. Good food
7. Bills paid
8. Reliable transportation
avoidants will look you in the eye and explain that they are emotionally unavailable by nature and then become mysteriously available with a new person three weeks later.