Stop having kids broke and then remaining broke for 18 years then pressing them about money. Literally nobody who’s doing well is arguing with their kids for their min wage check. It is NOT a “responsibility” thing. You have bills and need help.
A person doesn’t have to only drain you with arguments & fights. They can drain you with lack of communication, lack of trust, lack of empathy, lack of apologizing, lack of acknowledgment & lack of fulfilling your love language.
When a nigga treating me good and fuckin me good consistently I swear all I do is brainstorm different things I can do to make him happy and keep him happy. And I will execute.
I don’t know who taught you that love is pain and chaos, but I hope they’re not in your life anymore. love is nothing like that - it is kind and nurturing.
Having a baby with somebody is super serious to me. I’m always thinking bout it; prolly over thinking even, but ion be feeling as if y’all take it serious enough fr.