Men get defensive when women say they want a financially stable husband. But what are we supposed to dream of? A stingy, broke man you come home exhausted to clean up after, cook for, beg for coffee money, and ride buses with a stroller?
As a woman you do not have to carry your mother’s ancestral misery, if the women in your family always accepts “CHEATING,SILENCE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE “ from men, your season means BREAKING THE CHAINS.
You Honor your lineage by surviving better than they did not by REPEATING their SUFFERING.
THE CIRCLE ENDS WITH YOU .
Not just the whore but the woman who is societally unacceptable. Men fall in love with promiscuous women, fat women, ugly women, dominant women; all of which are unacceptable qualities of an ideal woman. They reject her to fit in but are miserable at the end of the day.
I truly believe that if men married the “whore” they actually wanted to marry, they would be happier and more willing to get married.
The problem is they allow society, pressure, and social norms to tell them to go for the “good church girl” archetype, and they end up in sexless, dry marriages.
But in reality, they should’ve married the “whore.” Even if she isn’t actually a whore, that (exotic girl)
That’s why, even after they lose her, they’re still stalking her online and fantasizing about her even while they’re married with children.
Mukomana azongotsamwa akati kuna tete who has an abusive husband, “kana muri semi dai manyarara zvenyu” 🙌🏾😂 now takunzi tinofanira kuripa mbudzi nekuti taseka?🤦🏾♂️
“Imagine she was your daughter.”
No. Stop needing to imagine every woman as your daughter, sister, wife, or mother before you treat her like a human being. She shouldn’t have to be related to you to deserve dignity or respect. Just develop basic human empathy.
@ZvikoNN It's definitely an indicator of a growing economy, but not conclusive.
It signals the following; growth in other industries, in Zim context, Agric, Mining,
Investor confidence and rising disposable incomes.
Even wo varikubika sadza rema$1 varikuwandawo nekuti the market is there.
@ZvikoNN@mandem_l01 It’s developing. You are just broke wangu. Last year Makorokoza shared US$5 billion in gold exports amongst themselves. All of that money is going into the economy.
All our cement manufacturers are not keeping up with the demand from construction we have to import more cement.
That’s largely why I have come to hate the “straight men are more misogynistic than gay men”. Neither is more misogynistic than the other and misogyny is deplorable in all its forms.
A lot of the worst misogynists would insist they don’t have any antipathy towards women at all, because so many of the ways patriarchy dehumanizes women are completely normalized.
New word alert: stealthing (co ert condom removal).
Side thought: you are there practising stealthing and you expert me not to abort. Absolute madness!
no shade it’s actually scary how many people think misogyny has to present itself as extreme hatred of women and violent rhetoric for them to consider it as such. casual misogyny is dangerous precisely because it often presents itself as normal, harmless, or “just a joke”
Relatives are so funny because they genuinely think that I was too young to remember how they treated my father just because he wasn’t the most successful son-in-law 👍🏾 now mfs lined up in my inbox looking for a handout talking about “watikanganwa” 🚮