Che’nen

be kind ✨

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

Your wife is not a guest in your family. Your family are guests in your marriage because your wife is the foundation of the family you are building. Anyone who disrespects her is disrespecting you and a man fails the moment he allows friends, family, other women or even his own children to mistreat his wife. If she has to defend herself against your family, you are forcing her to question whether you truly have her back in the moment she stops feeling protected, she stops feeling safe. And when a woman no longer feels safe, respected or prioritized in her marriage, she stopped seeing her husband as a protector.

[Pawchi 🎐🍡 @PawchiVT]

that loneliness you feel when you realise you’ve exhausted someone, while your mind is still full of thoughts and worries you wish you could say. you want to reach for that person, be heard, be understood, but you know they’re already tired of carrying your feelings and insecurities. so you swallow them instead, and sit alone with everything you wish you could say. i hate that feeling so much

[` @schiz04renic]

the real flex is not revenge. it’s becoming the woman they can no longer reach, recognize or access

[ysna @luiysn]

you had a version of me no one else got, and you wasted it

[fàgó @Fago9ere]

people that love you, care about how they make you feel. the end

[• hatti @Whohewas0]

never allow anyone to consume you. if they dont call? go to sleep. if they dont text? put your phone away & go have a good day. if they are distant and refuse to communicate? go do something worth ur time, you live for yourself first. everyone else is secondary.

[Nora @nora_mindnotes]

A good woman isn't simply someone who supports a man's dreams. She's also someone who can challenge him without humiliating him, celebrate his wins without competing with him, and tell him the truth without trying to control him.

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

don't reach out, let them sit with the distance they created

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

You have to be able to separate how you feel about someone from how someone makes you feel. Those are very different things. I may feel about a person, that they are charismatic, and adorable and intelligent and wise and fun, but they make me feel, or if they make me feel lonely and sad and anxious and stressed and questioning my value, that's the reality of my relationship. So you can think someone is a god, but if they make you feel like you're nothing, that's going to be your experience.

[Your Emotional Healing Coach @AfsaRosette]

You can tell someone’s either unhealed or there’s already another person in the pic by the way they react to you loving them. And the guilt of knowing they're doing things without your knowledge. Most ppl don't know how to sit in that guilt in a healthy way. So they become mean.

[cewe pusing @cewekpusink]

lelaki tuh selalu pengen cari dan nemuin perempuan yang bisa membawa ketenangan, okey. pertanyaannya apakah mereka bisa bikin perempuan merasa secure?

jadi bukan hanya: "aku ingin mencari perempuan yang bisa buat aku tenang."

tetapi juga: "aku ingin menjadi laki-laki yang membuat perempuan yang kucintai merasa aman, sehingga ketenangan di antara kami muncul secara dua arah."

[valentine @valawakened]

You deserve a love that feels calm and effortless—someone who gives you best-friend energy, makes you laugh until your stomach hurts, and never gets tired of flirting with you. Someone who takes the time to learn how you receive love, just so they can love you in the ways that make you feel truly seen, understood, and cared for.

[ًِ @bckupacc99]

Perkongsian yang bermanfaat

[zafran | weddingtemplate | takaful @zafranmustafa]

"aku uruskan apa yg dia nak tanpa dia minta."

Nasihat yang bagus untuk pasangan yg planning nak kahwin. 💯

[ecii @ecidhani]

Inget ya gaisss, semua tentang waktu. Allah akan memberikannya disaat kita betul-betul layak memilikinya. Maka bersabarlah, karena segala sesuatu hadir tepat pada waktunya. (QS. Al-Fatir:13)

[A 🇦🇪 @tutututuulip]

As long as your heart is pure and your intentions are genuine, never stress over what you can’t control. What’s meant for you will find you, and what leaves was never yours to keep.

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

Déjà vu in Islam

Ever walked into a place for the first time…
and felt like you’ve been there before?
Science calls it déjà vu.
Islam explains it on a deeper level….

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

You can only get married when Allah wants you to, and you can only marry, when Allah bless it for you.
No matter how hard you try, or how many proposals you receive, or how many relationships you make, it will only happen when Allah wills.
Put your trust in Allah!

[Zac @ZacZakirin13]

Tolong lah jangan menormalisasikan Nasi Lemak Malam / Nasi Berlauk Malam. Beli dan makan nasi lepas pukul 11 mlm. Yang beratur membeli pun pinggang 35 ke atas rata²nya.

Tak sayang kat kesihatan badan ke oi? Dah la kita kurang doktor, nurse. Medical expenses pula makin mahal.