@mrfestusogun@UthmanTochukwu Apart from wig and gown then white with stud, I no buy or do anything.
I get suit, I get shoe.
So no pressure nothing. I didn't not do either photoshoot, calendar or jotter. Infact na venue of call person use iPhone snap me.
That's how I got call Pic
Amongst the women Allah mentioned in the Qurฤn (expressly and impliedly):
Maryam
Imrฤn's wife (Maryam's mother)
Fir'awn's wife
Nooh's wife
Loot's wife
The former four are women of honour and the latter two are from the worst of women to ever walked the earth.
The household of 'Imrฤn was a righteous one so much Allah revealed an entire surah about the household the household which produced Jesus.
When Allah talks about marriage in the Qurฤn, he specifies for believing men to marry their female counterparts, the chaste amongst them, not those who take boyfriends.
Allah says:
ููุง ู ุชุฎุฐุงุช ุฃุฎุฏุงู
ููู ุขูุฉ: ููุง ู ุชุฎุฐู ุฃุฎุฏุงู
Not those who take boyfriends.
When Allah describes His servants who tread softly on earth, of the things He says about them is:
ููุง ูุฒููู
And they do not commit adultery and fornication. โ Alfurqฤn, 68
In another verse, Allah prohibits going near zinฤ.
In two verses of the Qurฤn, Allah refers to Maryam as: the one who guarded her chastity.
In another, her refers to her as Assideeqah. A level of righteousness next to Prophethood.
ูุงูุฏููู ูููู: :
ููู ูู ููุทูุนู ุงูููููู ููุงูุฑููุณูููู ููุฃูููููฐุฆููู ู ูุนู ุงูููุฐูููู ุฃูููุนูู ู ุงูููููู ุนูููููููู ู ูููู ุงููููุจููููููู ููุงูุตููุฏูููููููู ููุงูุดููููุฏูุงุกู ููุงูุตููุงููุญูููู ููุญูุณููู ุฃูููููฐุฆููู ุฑููููููุง
In all of these, I struggle to understand under which circumstance this trend could be appropriate.
It is tantamount to making a mockery of the Qurฤn, knowingly clearly 'dating' is prohibited. A 'simple' trend capable of nullifying a person's Islam. Iyaadhan billaah.
I saw someone already wishing he would date Mary the mother of Jesus. Ma'ฤdhallaah.
What is this fee sabeelillaah.
I didnโt start in a top tier firm, never worked in one, had no back up family fund, no fall back funds and no trust fund. Was the daughter of a public primary school teacher who spent afterschool in Isheri frying Garri, fetching water and watching our mum use our unpainted wall as blackboard for our school work revision.
While Iโm still on my breakthrough journey, here are few things Iโve learnt so far:
1. Use your early years for learning. Yes, you may or may not be well paid but ensure you are learning. In my early years, If Iโm not getting it from the firm, I ensured I was getting it from the news, law reports and friends in more active practice than I was.
2. Keep showing up: Some days will be good, some days, tough and other days outrightly bad. One thing you canโt stop doing however is showing up.
3. Never be comfortable doing nothing. Take on more tasks, more work and ensure you challenge yourself always. In my early years, I recall walking to my supervisor to ask for work once I see that I had nothing to do. I didnโt dress up, leave Iyana Ipaja for Lekki at 5am just to come do nothing.
4. Seek value adding opportunities. This is life. Where you arrived with a wobbly wooden ladder, someone else got there by an elevator. Donโt despise your wobbly ladder. Appreciate that itโs helping you move ahead in a place where some are still on the ground. Do not, however, be filled with unnecessary admiration of your wobbly ladder, focus on how you can make it better, how you can get an iron ladder, how you can build a staircase, how you can own your own elevator and finally how you can fly, outpacing even the elevator.
The goal is to keep moving.
5. Imagination and innovation should be your companion. Books, movies and the internet has helped us a lot in promoting equal access and opportunities. Take full advantage of this. Keep the vision of where you want to be in mind at all times. Make sure everything you do is taking you a step closer to where you want to be. Itโs okay if outsiders do not understand you and how you are moving. You alone know your goal, your map and your journey. Every single time you look at your vision, ensure you improve on it. Do it better.
Also, that you have not worked in a top tier firm does not mean that you cannot admire them from afar, watch what they are doing, listen to the interviews of their visioneers, and aim to build something similar if not better than what they have built.
6. Whether one naira or one million naira in fees, so long as your name will be on it, ensure excellence. What this means is that you must maintain a general standard of excellence and never be one to have adjustable level excellence based on fees paid per client. Be clear in your expressions, sound in your reasoning and knowledgeable in the advisory you offer clients.
Again, as I am still on this journey myself, I hope to continue to learn more and share as I encounter them. ๐๐ฝ
C.C.B. (Nig.) Ltd. v. Odogwu (1990) 3 NWLR (Pt. 140) 646
What plaintiff must prove in action for malicious prosecution -
In an action for malicious prosecution, the plaintiff must prove the following:
(a)
that he was prosecuted by the defendant. In this regard, it must be shown clearly that the defendant set in motion against the plaintiff the law leading to a criminal charge.
(b)
that as a result of the prosecution aforementioned the plaintiff was tried by a court of competent jurisdiction, discharged and acquitted; in short that the prosecution was determined in the plaintiffs favour.
(c)
that the prosecution of the defendant was completely without reasonable and probable cause.
(d)
that the prosecution was as a result of malice by the defendant against the plaintiff.
All the four elements above must be present for successful action for malicious prosecution, and the onus is always on the plaintiff to prove each and every one of them.
FYIโฆโฆ
Consultation fee: fee paid to speak with a lawyer and get legal opinion/advice.
Appearance fee: fee paid to have a lawyer show up in court for you.
Retainership: fee paid to a lawyer so he can always be on stand by for you. Once you pay this, you can call that lawyer in the night and he'd show up for you. (It's this fee that can make you say boldly "I HAVE A LAWYER"
Don't mix them up
To impress a woman as a lawyer:
Conduct due diligence.
Draft and plead your feelings in clear terms.
Tender uncontroverted evidence that youโre a good man.
Be prepared for costs to be awarded against you; the ultimate aim is getting the final judgment in your favour.