Y'all don't realize how laziness can kill a relationship. You may think that just being there and staying loyal is enough, but it's not. All those random compliments, kisses, phone calls, dates and making them feel valued and appreciated goes a long way in a relationship.
Let's normalize telling avoidant people, "It seems you don't have the capacity to love me in the ways I want and need, so let's not continue this" and leave it at that
And like Miley Cyrus said:
“I didn’t talk badly about you—I talked about what you did to me. If that makes you look bad, that’s not my problem anymore.”
Stop dealing with people who have no accountability in their life. They’ll do you wrong, justify it, then surround themselves with people who co-sign it… and suddenly you’re the problem.
Ignoring your woman’s needs and still expecting a healthy relationship is like skipping maintenance on your car and expecting it to run forever. Sooner or later, it breaks down.
I’m dropping a huge truth bomb and going to sleep:
For some men, losing an incredible woman is a relief—because now they can keep being mediocre without the pressure to become better.
It’s weird how some people can do shady things, then act offended by your reaction as if your response is the bigger problem than their behavior ever was.
There's a man sitting at Barnes & Nobles rn and his wife keeps bringing him books to hold and saying "oh just one more" and he looked at me and said "she can get the whole store and I'll carry it for her" this is the relationship i strive towards.
No one talks enough about how exhausting it is to continuously be the one who “gives grace”. In a lot of instances, you’re giving grace at the expense of putting someone else’s needs before your own.