When you give or help other people. It's not about how much you give or how much your effort to help. But it's about how much happiness which you and other people get . So let's give each other, help each other, get your happiness, and make other people happy :)
Mindsetnya bukan bahagia karena seseorang, tapi lebih ke kamu bisa bahagia dengan dirimu sendiri sehingga kamu bisa buat orang lain bahagia juga, because everything is not eternal, so if you loose someone, can't you be happy? Ofc not, cuz happines we make it from ourself 🙂
kenapa harus cari pasangan yang setara?
supaya perhatianmu gak terlihat obsesi, supaya pikiranmu gak dianggap berlebihan, supaya marahmu gak bikin telinga dia sakit, dan supaya tangismu itu gak terdengar seperti beban.