You're a man.
Neverrrrrrrr look desperate.
Suffer in silence.
Stand tall when life beats you down.
It's just your turn. Every great man bleeds before he conquers.
Be a man.
There's a difference between being stingy and being financially disciplined. Be generous when you can, but don't spend your future trying to impress people who won't be there when times get hard. Protect your finances, invest wisely, and live within your means.
We have gone to the same schools
We have gone to the same Universities
We have received the same education
And now We are in the same job market
But even so,
You expect me to have more money than you so that I can fund your lifestyle because im a man
Are you mad!?
Most people around you want you to fail,
They expect that when you fail,
• You will join them in their miserable lives,
Or,
• They will inherit your position so that they can succeed like you.
But if you don't meet their expectations of failure, they become even angrier and more hateful towards you for no reason,
Your growth and progress annoy them when you refuse to be the failure they expect.
Your discipline and determination to succeed angers them.
They will even become vengeful when you refuse to listen to their mockery and insults.
Such people cannot go far in life,
They will remain insufferable,
They will remain stagnant because their minds are full of mould as a result of jealousy, and their hearts are coated with thick black soot due to unnecessary hate towards a person who is just minding his business and has not done anything wrong towards them.
The only mistake you made is that you chose to pursue your purpose with discipline, order and consistency.
That is what irks them.
Refuse to accept their mockery and insults.
Focus.
In the end, you will win.
When a woman faces a choice between two men, she’ll naturally gravitate toward the one who offers her less attention. It’s not by design - it’s simply the way nature works.
Never chase after a woman. Don’t flood her with long messages, and never put her on a pedestal. The moment you do, her attraction begins to slip away.
Simping won’t win you the girl, and neither will endless attempts to seek her reciprocation.
Express your feelings, but don’t chase her. Don’t appear needy. Stay detached, keep your focus sharp, and always work on bettering yourself- because that’s what truly matters in the end.
Sexually Transmitted Infections,
Bacterial:
• Gonorrhoea
• Chlamydia
• Syphilis
Viral:
• Herpes
• HIV
• Hepatitis B
Protozoan:
• Trichominiasis
Take care of yourself. Be disciplined.
Your chest-thumping attitude will not help you.
CHANGE or PERISH.
Dating Hack:
Convince yourself that every girl you talk to is already deeply attracted and in love with you.
Even if she isn't, this will only help you.
Discipline is paramount.
Don't tolerate indiscipline.
Don't accommodate people who lack discipline. They will drag your life into a pit.
If someone lacks discipline, he is also disrespectful, not just to himself, but to you.
Normalize spending money on:
Fitness.
Perfumes.
Good clothes.
Knowledge.
Healthy food.
MAN TO MAN: any money you spend on eating well, dressing well, smelling good and exploring the world neverrrrrrrr goes to waste.
Dear men,
When you wake up every morning think about money before you think about women.
You'll realize you need to have money before you can pay off debt.
Remember: The best deceivers do everything they can to cloak their roguish qualities. They cultivate an air of honesty in one area to disguise their dishonesty in others. Honesty is merely another decoy in their arsenal of weapons.
Shout out to the men who got hurt and used it as fuel.
The men who got rejected, disrespected, overlooked, underestimated, and decided to work harder instead of complain.
A lot of people see the success when it arrives.
Very few see the lonely nights, the sacrifices, and the pressure that created it.
Keep going.
One day the same pain you're carrying will become part of your success story.