people will literally talk you to death about how much they love & appreciate you but will have nothing to show for it. they won’t fight for you, they won’t go out of their way for you, they won’t even communicate with you. how much could i have meant really?
Gaslighting is worse than lying in my opinion. Like, it’s one thing to lie but to try your hardest to convince me that I’m crazy or insecure knowing damn well I’m right is the devil’s work.