Como abogada de familia les digo que ese mismo hombre que hoy te ofrece quedarte en la casa para cuidar a los niños en un futuro te va a querer dejar sin nada en un proceso de divorcio alegando que te quedaste en la casa viviendo a costillas de él y que no trabajaste por floja :)
centuries of women before me have yearned to taste the freedom i get to experience nowadays by being able to say no to marriage/children and choose my own path with full agency, and i will never take that for granted. they live through me
It’s like how a man’s job will be to take out the trash but then he doesn’t actually bother to notice when the trash needs to be taken out, will not take out the trash unless prompted to do so thus putting the mental load of this task on his wife, and will not put a new bag into the bin once he has taken it out.
The management of this task, its start and completion is still on the woman. He’s effectively just a mindless set of arms who still needs to be turned on and guided for this thirty second chore.
He takes no ownership over his responsibilities, he is merely a passive appliance and 2/3 parts of completing this task still falls on his wife. It may sound trivial but when this dynamic is the case with every single chore it completely drains you.
“Chinga tu madre”
Confrontativo, machista y hay daño colateral.
“¿Por qué no mejor te vas a la verga?”
Imparcial, directo y además invita a la reflexión.