flirting is supposed to be plausibly deniable! that's the whole point!!! if the person you're flirting with ever finds out for sure you're flirting with them, you've lost
Today I woke up angry because someone sent me a post about Afghan women, and I just couldn’t bring myself to scroll past it.
Who gave men the right to see women as the lesser gender? Who gave them the right to oppress us? How do you take away a woman’s rights simply because you’re a man? How do you tell a woman what she can and cannot wear? How do you allow a little girl to be married off at 9 years old?
What makes me even angrier is seeing these things justified in the name of religion. Watching extremists use faith as a shield for oppression is infuriating.
It genuinely makes my blood boil.
These extremists are pernicious people.
God, I am so angry. 😭
if you're scared to do something but think about it often, it's probably the exact thing you need to do to unlock the next chapter in your life. embrace the fear, welcome the change, and go after what you want with full force
Those white shorts we wore in NYSC camp, I can't even wear them outside, I'll feel weird.
In camp I wore them freely because everyone did 🤣.
So basically if we all agree, we can just go full Adam and Eve 🤣🤣.
Barack: You told me all those years ago that you couldn’t promise me the world, but you could promise me an interesting life. Of course, you outdid yourself and managed to give me both.
Eight years in the crucible, and not once did you melt from the heat. Not once did you let it harden you. Instead, you used it to reveal your truest essence: your stubborn optimism and unflinching courage, your dazzling brilliance and unpretentious decency, your ferocious work ethic and absolutely unshakable moral fiber.
Barack: You told me all those years ago that you couldn’t promise me the world, but you could promise me an interesting life. Of course, you outdid yourself and managed to give me both.
Eight years in the crucible, and not once did you melt from the heat. Not once did you let it harden you. Instead, you used it to reveal your truest essence: your stubborn optimism and unflinching courage, your dazzling brilliance and unpretentious decency, your ferocious work ethic and absolutely unshakable moral fiber.
Marry a kind man o…
I was involved in a gas explosion that had both legs burned. Both my legs were bandaged and for days I couldn’t walk.
My husband doesn’t know how to cook but before I said I was hungry, he would have ordered food.
One day he came home with two different pure aloe Vera extract gels and two pots of the aloe Vera plant. He said he heard that aloe Vera helps to heal burns..
The next day someone delivered a big bottle of honey .. my husband said. Another person told him honeys was good for burns but most honey they sold were fake so he ordered some from a vendor in the village that harvests the honey by herself… I asked how much he bought it.. he said it was expensive but I shouldnt worry, my healing was his priority .
On one of those days I couldn’t walk, I woke up in the midnight and needed to pee, my husband had worked till very late at night so he slept off in his work space. I called for him to come carry me but he couldn’t hear me, so I dragged myself to the bathroom in pain when I got back to the bed I had peed a little on myself and cleaning up without being able to walk or stand felt impossible… I immediately started to cry… my crying woke my husband up and he rushed into the room asking if I was okay… he kept apologizing for sleeping off in his work space while cleaning me up and cleaning my tears…
When a man is unkind he knows he is unkind. A kind man will never hold back or give excuses.
Anuoluwatimileyin Oko mi. God bless the day you gave me your party rice 😍😍
Can’t totally fault people who resort to dating apps or matchmaking pages to find partners.
Once you miss university.
Miss NYSC.
Miss church gatherings or Islamic gatherings.
Don’t want to date your work colleagues.
Neighbor is a no go area.
Your best bet is either through social media, family and friends matchmaking, arranged marriage or you download your partner from heaven. If you’re an introvert that means you will sleep there.