I am impressed by this. Not by their climbing or bypassing security. But to be such a specific kind of crazy, that requires not just bravado but also great skill, and to find someone exactly as crazy, as skilful, as willing, who even happens to look like you and to have them be in love with you... few people will ever be so lucky, few people will ever live life so fully. To be lucky to find this, you don't need to live 80 or 90 years. They have already lived a hundred lives.
A woman on TikTok shared that her husband of 13 years cheated on her, left her with two kids, and when he finally explained himself it came out that he was tired of her endometriosis. Tired of her canceling plans. Tired of the lack of s3x because it caused her pain. Tired of her needing help in the kitchen sometimes. Even complained that her gynecologist appointments were too expensive.
And honestly, my biggest fear has never been ending up single forever. My biggest fear is marrying a man who will abandon me the moment my body needs grace and replace me with another person just because he can. A man who will trade loyalty for lust. A man who will justify betrayal because patience became inconvenient.
That kind of love terrifies me way more than being alone ever could.