giving a woman a proper pregnancy/post partum experience is one of the highest responsibilities (and honors) you’ll ever have as a man.
anything less is failing your child before they even arrive and become conscious. I wish every new mom a partner who recognizes that.
You have to be a leading lady but you can’t be nominated for best actress. You have to be a strong female director but you can’t be nominated for best director. You have to have a wildly popular dance song but you can’t be nominated for best original song.
At some point you have to learn to trust your own feelings and opinions. Running to your friends to solve every dilemma you’re in, isn’t the answer. Nobody knows the ins and outs of your life better than you. And friends often advise based on one side of the story - your side.
i told this guy "everyone you know is someone that is going to die. whats the point in being transactional, we can just take care of each other. don't you want to have old friends?" and he started crying
I (16m) brought my sister (9f) to a party where she had an allergic reaction to walnuts and on our way to the hospital she stuck her head out the window and was decapitated because I swerved near a telephone pole and now my mom is screaming in my face about it at dinner. AITA