Yes but only if they’re okay with me popping their pimples. not because i don’t find them attractive otherwise, but because there will be times where i mindlessly start to try to pop them and you will get mad at me. sorry for my illness
AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT: parent figures were dismissive and consistently emotionally neglectful.
We learn: no one cares about us, our needs aren't important, it's not ok to ask for help, and I am alone in this (cruel) world.
ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT: parent figures were highly anxious or emotionally distant. They reacted to their own emotional state and low stress tolerance (moody, impatient).
We learn: adults are unpredictable and I have to protect myself. No one will meet my needs.
YEAH SEX IS COOL BUT HAVE YOU EVER TALKED TO SOMEONE AND YOU CAN TELL THEY'RE REALLY EXCITED TO TALK TO YOU AND WANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU BETTER AND GENUINELY CARE ABOUT YOUR INTERESTS AND THEY MAKE TIME AND PUT IN EFFORT AND RECIPROCATE YOUR ENERGY