miri

#psychology #mentalhealth #tech #queer #nonbinary in love with words pronouns: any

[miri @schlauberg]

"Niemand ist fort, den man liebt;
Liebe ist ewige Gegenwart."
Stefan Zweig

[miri @schlauberg]

@Aella_Girl As a person with aphantasia your framing makes little sense to me for me. The connection is simpy not there, so I construct it via an aesthetic choice and filter out religious symbols when I recognize them. To me egodeath comes as felt clarity and a voice w/o perspective (POV).

[miri @schlauberg]

@Aella_Girl I do think that "normie" protocol makes people dumber, or in a way at least less interesting to talk to. I would usually use euphemisms, I admire you for your bluntness.

[miri @schlauberg]

@eruditebaboon Are you still looking for a way to make Beaver and Steve accessible again? Missing them. Can I be of any help?
I really appreciated the joy they brought to me.

[miri @schlauberg]

I just received 5 vegan gummy bears from someone on @buymeacoffee! https://t.co/bEk22kyDZo

[Aella @Aella_Girl]

man not getting what u want is so nice

[Threema @ThreemaApp]

To celebrate our partnership with @ApostrophyOS, we’re giving away ten (yes, 10!) @punkt MC02 privacy smartphones: https://t.co/rGwb8xogRP

[Morgan J. Freeman @mjfree]

THIS WINS THE DAY!!!! https://t.co/Lk2PJeFByd

[miri @schlauberg]

I love ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 being on chatter so much and I'm happy to onboard you and giving you an invite. HMU

[Armin Wolf @ArminWolf]

„Gender-Wahn“ - ganz schlimme Sache, wie der SPIEGEL statistisch untersucht hat.
Genderzeichen (Sternchen, Doppelpunkt etc.) kommen in deutschen Medien (außer der taz) und in der Verwaltung praktisch nicht vor.
https://t.co/KzMMKSSP19

[miri @schlauberg]

@_brentbaum Your team is as awesome as is your product. Written from a real fan. 🥰 From the bottom of my heart of all parts and surely some sweet exiled shadows.

[Jonny Miller @jonnym1ller]

The Self-Regulation Paradox

A few years back, I fell into a trap (that I also see in many students) along the way of cultivating nervous system mastery.

Initially, when someone discovers bottom-up protocols (4-4-8 breathing, Voo-Hum etc.) it’s a total game-changer.

Instantly, the moments of intense anxiousness, fear, and overwhelm can be effectively managed. In the short term, life improves tremendously, and you’re able to function again in almost all situations.

However, this is where it’s easy to get stuck.

If every time that you feel a sticky emotion, you just self-regulate it away without feeling it — you are still adding to the backlog of emotional debt.

This is where the paradox comes in.

It’s crucial that you feel safe and grounded enough in the moment (which often requires some level of self-regulation or co-regulation with another) – but then, at some point, you inevitably need to feel the thing.

There’s no way around it. All emotions must eventually be welcomed in with open arms.

Anxiety, why hello there.

Grief, hello, old friend.

Shame, it’s lovely to see you again.

You’re welcome to resist this as much as you like but spoiler alert, it doesn't end well.

Instead, if you begin with even an inkling of curiosity toward the emotional charge — as opposed to animosity and follow that, your life may radically change for the better.

[miri @schlauberg]

@suesssauersosse Da es vermutlich ein Smart TV ist, den man via Apps und diversen Devices steuern kann, was die Findigkeit aktiviert. Call it Fernseher hacken Nachmittag.
Mir hat mal 1 Elter mit 14 die Sicherungen rausgetan & ich habe den Sicherungskasten geknackt. chichi

[✨Paula Deme✨ @paula_deme]

Heute ist internationaler Männertag.

Wo sind die Demos?

Mancher Mann schreit ja oft rum am Weltfrauentag, dass zu wenig an Männer gedacht wird. An deren Probleme, an deren rechte.

Also, Freunde. Heute seid ihr dran.

#internationalerMännertag #Männer

[miri @schlauberg]

Some people are better loved from afar. [Contains no bitterness or sarcasm]

[miri @schlauberg]

@PhysioAftermath Wie ist sein Charakter?

[Florian Roth ⚡️ @cyb3rops]

First security application I install on ...

macOS: LittleSnitch

Linux Server: Fail2ban

Linux Workstation: etckeeper

Windows Workstation: GlassWire

Windows Server: Sysmon

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What are yours?

[miri @schlauberg]

@InternetH0F @mirinades Plot twist: the name of the snake is capitalist patriarchy and it's already chasing you.

[miri @schlauberg]

@InternetH0F @mirinades Plot twist: the name of the snake is capitalist patriarchy and it's already chasing you.

[Martin Gommel @martingommel]

Was wird von Leuten als „gesund“ dargestellt, ist es aber nicht?