Šmina

complex, unlikeable, and utterly compelling

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@DrSinanovic how old is he...

[Šmina @schminzilla]

Germans? 😅

[Bryan Johnson @bryan_johnson]

I met Kate’s parents.

It was a nail bitter.

We landed after 24 hours of travel and immediately went to her mum’s house where the family congregated… her mum, dad, auntie, three cousins, sister, brother-in-law, a 3-wk old newborn, brother, and soon-to-be sister-in-law. There were 15 of us crammed into a living room.

Upon arriving, someone said “oh I know your content from X”.

Blood drained from my face. Nobody could tell though because my face is already pretty pale.

Her dad and I hit it off. We cracked macadamia nuts from his tree, used an electric saw to open a coconut, and spoke about being carried as a baby by his 14 year old brother in the Bosnian snow while a German shot at them with a machine gun.

Her mother, also from Bosnia, needed some time to warm up. That’s reasonable. I understand. I’m a bit unusual. She’s soft spoken, careful with her words, and protective of her daughter. A few days in and I began to worry that I may head home with an undecided verdict.

I decided to live in her mum’s world. I ate everything she prepared, including meat, bread, and pasta, and embraced the discomfort of being an introvert in a week-long marathon social interaction with the entire extended family.

We spent time in her garden and she fed me stevia leaves, peppers, celery, chives, peanut berry, grapefruit, and starfruit.

Growing up, my mother and I maintained a garden together. I loved tending to it daily and it felt good to be back in the soil. Spending time with Kate’s mum motivated me to grow a longevity garden.

Our shared love of gardening was the first big breakthrough.

What really sealed the deal was when I interviewed Kate’s mum for an hour on camera, covering her upbringing and life and learning more about Kate. Somehow that format allowed her to see me more clearly than a generic social setting.

I think she came to understand and trust my devotion to Kate.

In the final hours before my departure, she was radiating with warmth. The entire family had gathered for a meal and it was laughter and teasing all around.

My love and respect for Kate deepened. I spent time going through all of her childhood things, helping me see and understand her with greater depth. More on this later.

It feels nice to be part of the family.

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@i_sokirata ma haj polako jedno po jedno, sigurna sam da nije tako strašno kako se isprva čini čovjeku. evo kao prvi korak otprati @Inko_Gnitto 😁

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@i_sokirata a stas. ja svaku kilu osjetim kad se udebljam, jednostavno bolje živim ispod odredjene težine

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@MHJas_ boli me briga sta drugi pričaju, i to jeste relativizacija kada znaš sta je "power struggle" a sta je bilo kod nas - kao sto znam da zna. zato mislim da joj govor ne valja i da je od toga krenulo. ako me to čini licemjernom ok whatever

[Šmina @schminzilla]

de bona reci da ti je govor sloppy napisan i prodji vise

[Slobodna Bosna @SlobodnaBosna]

SABINA ĆUDIĆ BRUTALNO O KOMŠIĆU ⛔️⛔️
"Sram ga bilo. On je trebao da brani i mene od 1992. do 1995. godine!"

[Kenan Efendić @kenan_ef]

Kvragu, Bosanac nije bio smiješan.

[Zulfo @zoulfault]

Power struggle u PICu materinu

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@zlidoktorSam @Harisehovi1 dosta se etničko čišćenje nagrađivalo, mislim na taj "čisto hrvatski"

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@AylaLejla @podjahkad ma super je privatno i ja sam imala pokriven porod tu ali onda imaš neku komplikaciju (kod mene mala bebina tezina) pa hajd stisni rizikuj. ako je sve ok onda super, ali ako ima problemčića ili sumnje na problem oko tebe ili ploda opet si najsigurnija na jezeru

[Šmina @schminzilla]

gledam ove postove po FB grupama GAK ovako GAK onako... ljudi meni je na GAK-u fakat bilo ok. nije hotel nego klinički centar, al fakat mi je bilo fino. imala super doktora. sad se nešto pokusavam sjetiti, bilo mi je malo vruće jer sam bila krajem jula al ono... to je to.

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@podjahkad @AylaLejla koje ovi nasi cesti uppste ne zanima. ti bolni pregledi poslije poroda se rade, ali naravno uvijek probudiš pacijenta, pa boze sačuvaj taj slučaj. ja svakom preporucujem da ide na baby steps, oni se jako trude oko ovih stvari

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@podjahkad @AylaLejla taj njihov tretman i otresitost je grozna, ali nazalost dosta ovih praksi su po zaostalim kliničkim protokolima kod nas, a i šire (to skakanje na stomak, šivanje uvijek ide s lokalnom anestezijom ali uvijek boli nazalost, epidural cesti ne uspije...) samo ima način da to bude ok

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@AylaLejla @podjahkad nije, ali mi je bilo odmah pored ulaznih vrata, kao da jeste. ne znam ostale sobe kako su išle...

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@AylaLejla @podjahkad evo recimo moja rodica prošle godine u vojnoj imala predobro iskustvo, epidural, super porod, ostala dva dana i izašla kao nova... bas su dijametralno različita iskustva

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@NotM93 @relja996 prejako haha

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@NotM93 @relja996 bhahahahaha

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@dzundub @Jusy200 naravno da ne mijenja, to je najjeftiniji mogući napad na nekoga

[Šmina @schminzilla]

najjaci

[mery @merymerss]

Mahmut Orhan milyonluk DJ setiyle kendi köyüne konser vermiş nereden geldiğini bilmek ve unutmamak köylüler de çifte telli çalıyor gibi eğleniyor orada olmak isterdim ya ahshhdjsjsj

[Šmina @schminzilla]

@dzundub @Jusy200 kaže forto kritiziraju je ljudi koji ne znaju to na engleskom ni izgovoriti. I mean....