Sometimes “locking in” looks like sitting in the sun and remembering that your life is also meant to be lived, not just optimized, monetized, and turned into proof that you’re worthy.
The REALEST people are highly selective. They have no desire to be connected to people who operate from jealousy, negativity, wickedness, entitlement, and a lack of integrity. If you pay attention, they are the most isolated, move quietly, and mind their own business.
Being disliked by people with ugly spirits is protection. I have no desire to be connected to people who operate from jealousy, wickedness, negativity, entitlement, manipulation or a lack of integrity. Life is spiritual. Not every heart is safe to stay connected to..
There's a difference between self-control and suppression. Holding your tongue for a moment to avoid saying something harmful is wisdom.
Holding your tongue forever to avoid every uncomfortable conversation is avoidance. Unspoken feelings don't disappear. They often become resentment, distance, or emotional exhaustion.