No shade but if you’re a woman that have men or a husband, boyfriend that worships the ground you walk on and spoils you. It’s gonna be hard for you to be friends with women that don’t have that or never experience that. They will sit there & create imaginary beef with you over your life because deep down they wish it was them. They will secretly wish the worse for you. I had to learn this the hard way.
for me, the purest form of love is consideration. when someone thinks about how things would make u feel. pays attention to detail. holds u in regard when making decisions that could affect u. in any bond, how much they care about u can be found in how much they consider u
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.🤍