“sex is normal” no sex is normal too. being a virgin is regular even as an adult. there is nothing embarrassing about being a virgin even if were in your 50s, for example.
there’s a specific kind of white queer that views their own queerness as a “get out of jail free” card above anything else and when they act rudely or say bigoted things themselves and (rightfully) get pushback, they act like they’re being persecuted, zero self-awareness omfg