Good women are generally very lowkey and not that socially visible. The reason you think they don't exist is because they are protecting themselves and trying to avoid unwanted attention. The trash is loud and plentiful, but there are more beautiful feminine souls than you think.
The fact that we exist means we owe others something
We come into this world helpless. Others take care of us. Dedicate time, resources, love, their lives into our upbringing, into our wellbeing.
You were given your life, you were protected, nurtured and cared for, and now you owe others the same.
Because you were given life by your parents, you owe your own children their life. It is a debt you have accrued and you pay it when you give someone else the same blessing you were granted, the blessing that is keeping, guarding and nurturing their lives.