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Questions from the Mumbai Mirror's Ask the Sexpert. Please offer advice.

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My wife insists on leaving her bra on during sex. She says her breasts are very sensitive and she feels uncomfortable when I touch them. It is a bit of a turn off because I feel breasts are an important part of sex and foreplay. Is there a way she can overcome it?

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I am an 18 year old man. I am attracted to straight men. How can I attract them towards me?

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I know it's all wrong but I am very attracted to my elder brother since past 3 years. I am 19-years-old and he is 26 and I want to form a love relationship with him! Please advice me as it's very important.

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I am a 30 year old married woman and enjoy a happy sex life. Recently, I discovered that my husband has a panty fetish and wears women's underwear daily. Is this normal for men? Also he removes his pubic hair with hair removal cream once every fortnight. Is this safe?

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I have had sex 10 times with my girlfriend in the last six months, but I never feel satisfied because I ejaculate too early. Also, how can I increase the size of my penis?

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My fiancee talks to much about sex with me on phone due to this I secretly started masturbation.But one day while I was masturbating my younger sister notice me.After two nights while I was sleeping she started touch my private parts.Please reply is ok 2 be lesbian after marriage

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I am the world record holder for masturbation (11 times) in a single day. But recently when I was reading your column some other person broke my record (12 times). God is not sending me a girl. I see sexy girls whenever I go by train or bus. But why is he not giving them to me!

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I am 21 y/o man. Last week, I was oscillating my penis while masturbating. I turned it upside down and sat on it. I heard a snap, but experienced no pain. Have I fractured my penis?

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I get excited when I see my wife performing sexual acts on another man. Because I enjoy it, I also insist that my wife engage in such acts with her boyfriend in front of me. I am however aware that this sounds like deviant behaviour. What’s wrong with me? Is this normal behaviour

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I got married a few days ago. I get an erection but as soon as I try to insert it, the erection is not there anymore. Please suggest some medication.

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I am a 31y/o married male. I have been away from my family since I was 17. I have experienced this strange thing since childhood, that of having feelings of incest towards my mother. I sometimes feel very shameful for my thoughts. Please help me in taking myself out of this mess

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I am a 20 year old man. I wish to know what is the maximum number of times a man can have sex in his entire lifetime?

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I had sex with a commercial sex worker during a trip abroad. It was a clean environment and I used protection. However, I recently noticed that my semen has become thinner in texture. Could this be because of the act?

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My breasts and, especially, my nipples are extremely sensitive and I feel ticklish and uncomfortable when my husband touches them. This really puts him off. I have spoken to many of my girlfriends and none of them have this issue. Do I need to get myself checked by an expert?

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I am 25 and my husband is 31. He has no bad habits except that he smokes excessively. We have sex only once a month, which lasts for a minute. There is pressure from our family to have a baby, but he has no interest in sex. He doesn't get excited even when I wear skimpy clothes.

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Is it alright for me to approach my sister-in-law and tell her that she can have sexual intercourse with me?

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While making love for more than an hour, my orgasm level got high and i feel achey pain in my lower abdomen and testicles. Am i going through any disease ? Please solve my problem.

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I am 49-years-old and my erections only lasts for a couple of minutes. My wife hasn't complained about it so far, but I don't know what she feels. I feel I have a lot of heat trapped in my body. Please advise what I should do.

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I am a 40 year old man. I actively indulge in anal sex. After intercourse my penis stays erect and is ready for another episode.

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My husband and I like to experiment with various sexual positions. We recently tried anal sex and both of us enjoyed it. Can we get AIDS from anal sex?