sofea

[sofea @sfearshd]

my mom is the greatest gift from God 👌💯

[Mai @MaisarahMahmud]

Marriage isn’t always going to be easy but I hope you marry someone who is gentle towards you. Yang ada tinggi ihsan sebagai seorang suami/bapa.

Setiap sakit mengandungkan anak suami you, bersalin, breastfeeding & even process wean off, rasa happy sangat bila ada 100% support.

[Nai • 𝑄𝑈𝐼𝑁𝑇𝐸𝑆𝑆𝐸𝑁𝐶𝐸 @NaiBb_]

Writing his ex a song to get her back and putting her picture in the MV for the whole world to see before even announcing that they were dating.

[Malissa @malissaali]

Ibu kepada arwah baby Handzalah bagi susu ibu dia pada baby 2 bulan yang maknya meninggal lepas susukan tu. 😢😭 sebaknya ya Allah

[Poem Heaven @PoemHeaven]

one day..

[Words @wordstionary]

🤍

[liminal @Liminal1988]

Marry a man who wants to be a husband,...

[🌻 @nnnysff]

My oerancang kehamilan is bagi suami yg jaga anak. Mandi, makan, main, tidurkan, berak semua suami buat. So bila discuss pasal 2nd baby, suami cakap kena fikir betul2. Anak 1st dah 4 years old 🤣. Bila suami jaga kebajikan anak dan isteri, barulah rasa seronok nak mengandung lagi

[Nasriqul Afiq @nasriqul]

Bila dah jadi laki/bapak orang ni

Satu benda aku sedar

Pentingnya pilih pasangan yg kita rasa selesa & Seronok untuk sembang dgn dia

80% hidup berfamily ni sebenarnya sembang ja

Masa makan, sblm tido, dlm kereta, bincang urusan anak, financial dll

Kalau part communication pun dah susah, banyak benda kan jadi masalah

[ice @aishastraphobia]

@pelisahh kenapa ek nak rasa entittle? bukan ke wife tu yang sakit beranak? So ikut dia lah nak pantang dekat mana. Her feelings yang nak kena jaga, not your mom???

[Ncaa. @nisanindita_]

Maaf tanpa memperbaiki adalah sia-sia.

[Aiman Psikologi 🧠🇲🇾 @AimanPsikologi]

Most of the time before we get the guy/girl, we studied a lot about them.

We trying to know what's their favourite colour, their favourite food etc.

But once we get them (e.g. married), we often stop the process of learning because we thought we already win.

But the thing is, it shouldn't be like that.

If the amount of learning that we do to our loved one is like getting a SPM level education,

Then, we should keep on learning until we get a degree, a master and ultimately, a PhD of learning about our loved ones.

Even until then, keep on learning and working on the marriage.

Falling in love is not a point or a destination.

It's a journey that we have to keep doing through out the life together.

Keep falling in love with the same person over and over again.

Refresh the love, don't let it turn into an auto pilot of marriage.

Sebab itu wujudnya pepatah,

"Bercinta sampai syurga."

Mendalam maksudnya, kalau kita betul-betul kaji ayat itu.

[not pel @pelisahh]

semoga dipermudahkan semua urusan u sis

[Words @itswords_]

this isn't me

[iman @__nmn169]

Kalau maknya cakap tak boleh, aunty pun jangan terus belikan melainkan dah dapat izin maknya ye memakcik sekalian. Maknya tu kadang bukan takde duit, dia taknak ajar anak dia beli benda yang tak perlu dan taknak menyepah rumah dengan mainan bertimbun.

[Inferam @InferamAI]

This video is a great resource to learn more about how breastfeeding works.

[Mai @MaisarahMahmud]

Dulu pernah termenangis depan husband waktu fasa jaga newborn. Tak sangka ‘sepenat’ tu and terfikir, semua ibu rasa macam ni ke?

Baby masuk je 4 bulan, fuh lega mat 😮‍💨 Tidur malam lebih panjang, tak kerap menyusu.

Hang in there mommies, the first 3 months tu sangat penat 😭

[not pel @pelisahh]

after being treated like this, who CAN move on, really? a woman never forgets how she is treated during pregnancy and postpartum.

im so sorry for your loss anon 🥺

[semoga Alia murah rezeki 🤲🏻✨ @aliashfqaa]

@pelisahh Thats why having a supportive husband is soooooo crucial. Stress wohhhh bila semua benda blame the mother. Perut baby kembung? Salah mak. Baby tak pakai socks/topi? Salah mak. Baby asyik hisap tangan dia je? Salah mak. So husband wajib backup their wife bila org lain condemn

[Hilal Asyraf @HilalAsyraf]

Kebanyakan lelaki yang sayang isteri saya yakin insyaAllah takkan cakap dengan isteri: "Ini je?"

Sepanjang 12 tahun kahwin ni, prinsip saya mudah.

Isteri nak masak? Alhamdulillah.
Isteri masak, tapi rasa tak cukup(contoh saya teringin nak ada ayam goreng ke sekali)? Pergi tambah sendiri, masak/beli sendiri.
Isteri tak nak masak? Tak ada masalah, kita ajak dia makan luar.
Sekali-sekala, saya yang nak memasak atau ajak isteri masak sama-sama saya.

Sayang isteri.
Isteri dah masak tu, dah satu act of love.
Kita balaslah dengan act of love juga. Menghargai. Tak cerewet.