yesterday my 13 year old was being harsh and impatient with me, and to my own surprise i started crying. embarrassed and through tears I said “i don’t know why you’re being so harsh with me, but if you’ll tell me what’s going on i’d like to help.”
at first i felt embarrassed for being so affected by how she was treating me, and for crying in front of my children. but what happened was they were able to witness me feeling my feelings before i was able to process them, and this was the foundation of a really lovely conversation and moment of deep connection.
later my 7 year old said “i’ve seen you cry from happiness or laughing a lot, but i didn’t know that you cried when you’re sad too” and oof. in wanting to provide them with a sense of stability and security i realize that i’ve processed most difficulties privately, and that’s not helping them at all.
my family of origin was chaotic and unsafe, and i think i swung to the opposite extreme of totally sanitizing my difficult feelings before communicating them with my family. i’m so grateful for this incremental awareness that will help me be more deeply connected to my children. :)
@Albertsons What happened to costumer service? The checker said it wasn’t part of her job to put my groceries in the cart, even when I told her I needed assistance. So now I am asking myself, should I go to a competitor for better customer service?
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Calling all North Texans! @UnitedWayDallas’ annual Reading Day presented by @EYNews is just over a month away. We need 700 volunteers to help promote literacy by reading to 7,000 kids in local classrooms.
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When all you want to tweet about is the University of Tennessee Volunteers being the number one football team in the first 2022 college football playoff rankings, and all of your followers are just here for the kids book tweets. #CFBPlayoff@Vol_Football
Fern now runs a truck farm (vegetables). She also has a stall at the local farmers market where she sells not only fresh organic produce but also things like stuffed pigs, spiders and other farm animals. She calls her business Some Pig Enterprises. #costumes#Halloween2022
Cohort 2 embracing a growth mindset, stepping out of comfort zones, and showing off their dance moves in PD to kick off Cohort 2! @DISD_Libraries redesigns coming soon in a @dallaschools near you! @ArlenaGaynor@shannontrejo https://t.co/BA770swUjF