nonashae

sharing my most intimate thoughts ✨

[nonashae @shae_official]

Life is not trying to break you down. Life is trying to break you open.

[nonashae @shae_official]

we should make sure their reality doesn’t become our reality.

How??? 👉🏻 By asking questions like:

• ‘How do I make sure I never get into a situation like that?’

•‘What hard questions should I ask and how should I effectively respond?’

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#LoveIsBlindSeason9

I don’t know what happens backstage & what the contracts look like but….

people who have a hard time being honest with themselves will have a hard time being straight forward with their partner.

and also unfortunate, is…

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Anyway… we’re just watching what the producers gave us. We weren’t there.

I hope a bunch of us watch and do a whole lot of self-reflection as we watch. Because all of us are in between all those personalities. We all been there, and if not……. 👇🏼

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Like it or not, you become the company you keep.

Jangan takut untuk pilih” teman.

Jgn takut mengurangi nongkrong dengan teman” yang kurang pas dengan prinsip hidup/gak sesuai dgn masa depan yg lagi dibangun.

Lu mau maju?
Pilih teman yg punya sikap sdmrp.

[nonashae @shae_official]

@KucengTerbanggg Like it or not, you become the company you keep.

Jangan takut untuk pilih” teman.

Jgn takut mengurangi nongkrong dengan teman” yang kurang pas dengan prinsip hidup/gak sesuai dgn masa depan yg lagi dibangun.

Lu mau maju?
Pilih teman yg punya sikap sdmrp.

[nonashae @shae_official]

Like it or not, you become the company you keep.

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Yup.

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We see the world based on our beliefs.
Our perception creates our reality.
Our perception is our truth.
Our truth isn’t necessarily THE truth.

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10% of the time it really is scary
and I can’t manage it alone.
That’s when I ask for help.

When I ask *the right people* for help
they lead me to where I need to be.
Which in turn creates better friendships and increasing my overall happiness.

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The thing about anxiety is it never really goes away.

The only to make it stop
is to say “fuck you i’m doing it anyway”

90% of the time, once I actually do the thing that scares me
it turns out to be not scary at all.

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Anyone can become a source of inspiration. They can inspire you to understand yourself and to better understand what you do or don’t want in life.

Self-awareness is required for this.

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I’m grateful that we met and got a chance to become friends for a few years. I’m grateful that some of the great parts of her personality rubbed off on me, and grateful that I got to better understand from her what I don’t want in my own life.

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There was a woman that I admired. When I first got to know her I thought
“wow! I wanna be like you. You seem so awesome!”

As I got to know her deeper, as I learned about her personal life, the more I realized fuck no I don’t want to be like that..

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careful who you aspire to be.

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If you see someone you perceive as wealthy, take note that you have zero understanding of how many credit cards they own, how much debt they have accumulated, what % of their income maintains their appearance.

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Unless you’re their accountant, you wont really know if they are actually wealthy or only acting so.

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I then took my fingers off the title and proceeded to read freely. No more shame, shyness, self-conscious feelings.

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I’m was reading a self-help book today at the salon, as I was getting my hair done, I noticed that I was trying to hide the title of the book.

As if I was ashamed.

I reminded myself: “you are….

[nonashae @shae_official]

“You are progressing in life. Be proud of that. You're doing everything to create a better present and future. Be proud of your journey, it may even inspire others. Stay focused on your goals and the positives.”