i'm somehow simultaneously horny as hell and also asexual and crave male attention but want to be left alone and have completely given up on dating and also still believe in true love
acho péssimo nunca ter tido um relacionamento mais nova e hoje ser percebida e atraente a certas pessoas mas sentir que essa atração é basicamente sexual porque quero meu romance bobo e adolescente aos 24 anos e não vista somente como um objeto de desejo
I want romance. I want intimacy. I want the 2 am love making. I want consistency. I want loyalty. I want the random looks of admiration. I want to know you're just for me. I want date nights & flowers. I want love so pure and true. I want it because I can return it.
I find that many women have internalised the idea that it’s a man’s job to ‘lead’ or steer a relationship, so they just wait and wait for him to define it because whenever he chooses to is the right time. They want more but are afraid to ask a simple question or start an honest conversation because they’re hoping he’ll eventually do it.
But you’re an equal participant. Clarity is something you should actively seek, not something you sit and wait on. You have every right to state what you want, ask where things are headed, and leave if the answer isn’t what you’re looking for.
Why even hand someone else that much power over your life? Stop treating yourself like a passenger in your own story. You have agency. Use it.