You get pregnant and the man leaves you. 👀
Society calls YOU a whore.
Calls the baby a bastard. 😭
But somehow there’s never a shameful name for the man who walked away.
If this appears on your Timeline Kindly Repost! This is Mazwi Mpumelelo Khubheka, he was kidnapped after Refusing to sell his spaza shop to Pakistani Spaza shops owners. Nearly a month has passed since the kidnapping of Mazwi, Mazwi was targeted after opening a spaza shop!
Stop telling people who don’t want children to have children! Legit it’s a full-time lifelong job. Children deserve parents who want them and are ready for the work. Some people don’t want that- and I fully support it. So please…just stop.
shaming women for loving men (who wear masks to disguise their poor character) instead of shaming men for having poor character is also internalized misogyny, btw.
hope this helps!
Somalians, Ethiopians and Pakistans can open so many Spaza shops in South Africa with ease...
But a South African opens ONE Spaza shop and gets kidnapped for refusing to sell the shop.
The government must intervene and ban these Spaza shops.
the thing about mirroring people’s behaviour (back to them) is that they still won’t recognize themselves in it. they’ll only focus on what you’re doing to them—even though it’s exactly what they’ve done to you.