being cheated on hurts.
you know whatโs even worse? figuring out what day it happened and realising they were able to act completely normal around you.๐
Being able to call on a nigga and actually depend on him is a flex. I can do it alone, but knowing somebody got my back and make life lighter? thatโs top tier.
somebody i love asked me what i crave the most and i said somewhere to belong. i never feel like i belong anywhere, it feels like im acting all the time
Do you know how strong you gotta be to sit with what you feel and not run from it? Not jump to the next person. Not distract yourself just to feel okay. Not fake like you unbothered or pretend like everything is good. Just sit in it. Just feel it. No rebound. No Alcohol. No Drugs. No revenge. No going out just to prove you over it. That kind of strength donโt get talked about enough. It takes patience. It takes discipline. And most people ainโt built for that kind of healing.โค๏ธโ๐ฉน ๐ฎโ๐จ
A man will watch you explain your boundaries, tell him exactly what hurts you, and practically hand him a blueprint for loving youโฆ just to look you in the eyes and do the exact opposite anyway.