Having a partner in life should feel like just that. A partner. You both vs. the world, not you vs. them. You should feel emotionally safe, open and comfortable.. that’s how you know they’re worth sharing yourself with. Nothing should be demanded, and nothing should ever feel forced.
One thing people gotta get comfortable with is moving. And when I say moving I mean moving to a place out of your comfort zone and adjusting. Whether it’s a new province, country, whatever. Because I will not pay 2K to live at Jane and Finch. I am fucking outta here.
A big flex for me is being low key. Nobody knows what’s going on in my life, where I’m at, who I’m with or what my next move is unless i make it known. Stop publicizing everything. Privacy is peace for me.