for 6 weeks of each year i allow myself to have love island brain (low cognitive function, irrational opinions, unbridled lust) and i think it’s really good for me. i’ll read a book or something after, idk
We’ve lost the art of just being like “hey man that was kinda uncool.” Everything has to be the biggest deal ever and people have to be groveling begging for forgiveness and apologizing profusely for every little thing. Sometimes a “yeah that was uncool my fault guys” is enough
I can't be involved with someone who is emotionally avoidant to the point where their reactions have me feeling like I have to apologise for caring about them them as much as I do. where I feel guilty for wanting to connect with them as deeply as I do. I'm not built for that