2013: on an island, avoidant as hell, thinking my life would be childless, marriageless, career focused, full of travel.
2023: securely attached, happily married with a child, achieving new levels of joy and depth of meaning, fulfilled in my career, and somehow on another island
me in 2013, 24yo improover: aaaaa i’m improooving, climbing is a metaphor for life bro, does nothing all day only improves
me in 2023, 34yo tpoter: hey have you hear of rob burbea? how expanded is your awareness? yeah i’m a meta-rat, didn’t you see my meta-hat?
Took my 4 month old twins on an international trip. Discovered I’m now part of a secret club called parents of twins, and there are way more of us than I thought
@GreatLakesWife_ Try to take it one night at a time. Just focus on getting through each night and don’t consider a longer time scale. I’m in my third postpartum phase (now with twins) and this is how I’m staying positive, vs last times constantly counting down the months which was an eternity
@clairevo@elawless Wow, I love following your posts and podcast and I had no idea you were pregnant this whole time! What an impressive grind, you seem so full of energy. Congratulations on welcoming your new baby
@iWomansplainer Congratulations! That feels so good. I am 3 weeks postpartum with twins and had the worst sleep yet last night 😅 was enjoying cosleeping at first but now I can’t wait til they can move to their own room
@FedPoasting And on top of that, usually the baby hates wearing these getups and it’s a disheartening chore to force them into them… or maybe that’s just been my own experience