shesjustbasic

Just a basic colored girl in a world full of colors navigating America and the World in all of its Beauty! & replying to this algorithm. all pictures by me.

[shesjustbasic @shesjustbasic]

It’s true.

[🥷 @_iamhabeeb]

Until death, all defeat is psychological.

[X @Xouy17]

I don't try to be nonchalant, I genuinely do not care about a lot of shit.

[trex @_trexszn]

Even if I love you, please don't underestimate my ability to cut you off.

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

REACTIVE ABUSE is when someone repeatedly pushes you until you react out of character, then they use your reaction against you.

[divya venn @divya_venn]

The secret to not being awkward is to never force conversation. Don’t try to come up with interesting things to say, don’t talk to people for the sake of talking, don’t voice opinions or ask questions to sound smart. Instead, notice your own curiosity and follow it. If you don’t have any, radiate comfort in your silence.

[tiffonii @Tiffoni__]

I hate being updated on people I don’t like. I do not care.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

introvert, extrovert😑
please don’t put me in boxes. I bloom where I am loved. I am quiet where I am judged, and I am absent where I am drained.

[` @schiz04renic]

as i get older i’m realizing some things deserve distance, not a debate

[S★ @xxyllinn]

I don’t want to "download the app" to pay for parking. I don’t want to "create an account" to see a menu. I don’t want to "provide feedback" on a 30-second interaction. I just want to exist in the physical world without a digital leash.

[¥ @laylanaiim]

Once you learn what projecting is, you don't take any of the lame shit people do or say to you personally. People are at war with themselves.

[hani @neco_momochan]

夫と、どハマりしてるんだけど

くだもの凍らして、生クリームいれて
アイスにして食べるの

ほんとに、めっちゃくちゃ美味しい。

ちょっと贅沢なんだけど、
これが楽しみで夏も頑張れてる！！！

次はマンゴーもいいなぁ🤤🥭🩷

[Workplace Mental Health Resources @Stopworkplacebu]

People who repeatedly attack your confidence and self esteem are quite aware of your potential even if you aren't.

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

I'm in love with this sentence:

“Forgive yourself for not knowing earlier what only time could teach.”

[ً @artfuIchaos]

never regret the love you give. it returns to you in another time, in another person, in other circumstances. but it will always come back to you.

[stressed @onlystresstoday]

for the right person, all you have to do is exist

read that again

[liz🧚 @Lizformee]

I want a relationship so peaceful that my nervous system finally stops preparing for disappointment

[goma @soigomaa]

I heard a therapist saying:
the guilt you feel for setting boundaries is a sign of how deeply you were trained to abandon yourself

[𓀎 @yapittarius]

another reason my grudges are so nasty is cuz i really do give people so much grace and it viscerally disgusts me when they take that for granted

[aether @bluewdrift]

This is free advice from an expensive psychologist.
If you're an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don't make everything a matter of life and death.

[alina @alinalately]

You don't outgrow people. You outgrow the version of you that tolerated what
never aligned.