Imagine this, but she also understands you don’t want a “relationship”, is also not ready to answer to anyone after a messy divorce. And likes’ her own space.
She asks that you, at very least, respect 2 Consent Boundaries - yep just 2, out of respect & protection for each other’s Emotions & Sexual Health.
Imagine a woman who is not just your best friend, someone who turns up for you, shows up for you, someone who genuinely wanted to know you for You, helps build a company, teaches you about dogs, can repair your car, a woman who knows stuff & does stuff, and woman who never asked you for anything except to hang out in your space with you and can match your sexual hunger/stamina and more!
Imagine that SAME woman said
“ I’ll never ask for more than you can give”. She never pushed you, never questions you or never forced you in to any kind of commitment………
You literally had a “Unicorn” of a woman!! You could have your cake and eat it too!
BUT YOU BROKE THOSE MEASLY 2 CONSENT BOUNDARIES!
And then for 11 months treated her like she was insane garbage.
Triggering every single C-PTSD trauma response with the most harsh hateful words, bullied her, made her feel like she is worthless….. she deserved it all.
And to make sure she understood her lack of value you defended a Stranger over someone who had stood by you through 4 years of turmoil, someone you said you couldn’t live without, someone you loved, someone you took home, someone you said you “always miss”, someone (the only one) you ever felt relaxed around enough to talk openly and frankly…….
And when faced with it, you turned your back and walked away…. Leaving her psychologically bleeding out on the floor, with wounds you inflicted. Leaving her in some kind of purgatory abyss.
Yeah Imagine that……
They don’t have to loose, they just have to inform.
@xpwrld I’m sorry, I do not see a Man anywhere in this video! I see a hairless ape behaving like the primate he is. Therefore, he should be treated like the “dangerous animal “ he is trying to embody and be shot. 🤷♀️ seems fair to me
Oh shit not me….. I’m stuck on the side of the path to my quest fully disassociating staring off into the abyss of trauma……
Shit 🤦🏼♀️ sorry I spelt C-PTSD wrong.
Tomato 🤷♀️ Potato⚖️
There is 100% a difference between Secrecy and Privacy.
Secrecy is intentionally hiding things they know will hurt or harm another. Also seen as INTENT TO HARM, Emotional Abuse, Psychological Abuse, among other things.
Privacy is giving just enough information to ensure all parties are informed and have a choice in the situation/decision/outcome. Protection, Consent, Respect, Boundaries and Choice.
🤢🤢 Flu season?
So glad I get IV vitamins, eat clean and well…. Live where the air is not infested like the smog of hell by far too many people in one sardine can sized city (dry heave).
GOOD LUCK 🤞 🫡 and may you survive the battle fields of bacteria, germs and infections….. 🔫 🔫 🫡🫡
Some days you just gotta ask them to go back and Problem Solve from the beginning, where the people in their past did not give them the chance to learn to use their brains……To think through a simple problem that, in their minds, seems very complex, until you explain it in terms they understand and THEN you see when those mental cogs start turning for the first time in their lives.
Training Animals and Children is the exact same principle ~ It’s all about TIMING. If you don’t have timing, don’t bother trying.
Feel
Body Language
Timing
Blaze aka Sanheaven With A Bang doing her best “what do you mean?” Fake dumb blonde stare and her wee “Beer Belly” 🤣🤣🤣 while bogarting pats from someone else and giving me the “See she loves me more” look.
(She does not drink beer FYI, she just has a wee pot belly that’s a bit cute)
Absolute crackin little bitch with more presence and charm than most people have.
She is the future of Sanheaven 🥰
@d7b you would appreciate her, she is the perfect blend of Ruin and Larry.
She’s also not quite sure she’s cut out to be a country girl 🤣