SHIBI

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[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

this man sharing a quote said “ as a lady if you are educated, financially independent, disciplined, and strong, then there is nothing left for a man to offer you except the way he treats you” and i think it’s fact.

[𝓢𝓱𝓪𝔂𝔂𝔂 🧚🏾‍♀️✨✨ @_iamhershayyy]

The fact that i survived seasons where my income wasn’t enough but my needs were still met will always be proof that God came through for me !

[Sheila of the Most High @sheilatebra]

EL ROI: THE GOD WHO SEES ME.

[𝕄𝕒_ℤ𝕠𝕟𝕕𝕠 @Nomagugu_xo]

My cousin said "Thinking you'll be the exception to someone's repeated behavior is how you become their next example." And that’s so real!

[✰ @PRINCESSVlCKY]

"OMG HE'S GOING TO TREAT THE
NEXT GIRL BETTER"

But you were "the next girl".
There was a girl before you.
And how did he treat you?

Like shit. Exactly.
Go get money.

[SHIBI @shibigallery]

✌🏾

[A 🇦🇪 @tutututuulip]

Expecting a woman to stay gentle while you fill her life with disappointment, confusion, and pain isn’t love it’s emotional neglect.

[Arafah🌹 @Ahrry_xo]

If I become a woman of few words with you, either platonic or romantic… just know that I've mentally checked out of that connection with you. 🫠

[nia-symoné 🦋 @niasymoneee_]

Bar too low. Trying isn’t enough. DO.

[𝕄𝕒_ℤ𝕠𝕟𝕕𝕠 @Nomagugu_xo]

Can we stop acting like the only deal breaker is infidelity and cheating? Let's please add gaslighting, lack of accountability and communication, immaturity, manipulation, mental/physical abuse, financial instability, not accepting kids, anddd being a liar…

[Shayla @sportsbyshayla]

one of the most useful skills to have in life is learning how to pivot QUICKLY. more life is on the other side of whatever isn’t working out.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

I used to think that holding your tongue was a sign of maturity, but I realized that a true sign of growth and maturity is being able to vocalize your feelings in an appropriate manner even if you are angry. Holding your tongue just fosters unexpressed feelings that lead to

[KLASIK ♠️ @lifeofklasik]

accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

lack of consideration will kill whatver bond we have. I’m not reminding you to act like you care about me.

[KLASIK ♠️ @lifeofklasik]

i can't force you to value me but i promise you'll notice the difference when i'm no longer around.

[Laiiyylaa @Laiiyylaa]

i don't think people really understand that there is no coming back from certain things. Some damage does not get undone, and once it changes how you see someone, that's it. Not everything deserves a second chance, no matter how sorry they are.

[milk. @milkpeel]

letting people play themselves out of
your life >

[Laiiyylaa @Laiiyylaa]

Nobody prepares you for the amount of pain and grief you experience when you have to forgive yourself for believing someone was actually a genuine person. The hardest part isn't just their betrayal.

it's the shame you carry for ignoring your instincts.

[𝓢𝓱𝓪𝔂𝔂𝔂 🧚🏾‍♀️✨✨ @_iamhershayyy]

Painful truth: you can’t expect someone who has spent their whole life avoiding their own emotions to know how to acknowledge yours.

[王 @0seiagyeman]

Go back to God, even if you've sinned a thousand times.