I'm at the age where I don't wanna be with a nigga, who doesn't make me feel special. I don't wanna be with NOBODY if I still have to do my own thang. I dont wanna relationship if we not a team. I dont wanna lay next to nobody I can't open up to. I don't wanna sit around silent knowing something wrong. I don't wanna brush shit under the rug. I don't wanna have sex when we can't even communicate & have decent conversations. I don't want nobody that's gon shut down & not act their age. I don't want a mf more stubborn than me. I don't want to live a lie. 2026 I Wanna GROW, Even If That Means Letting Go !!
I’m one bitch that never minded being vulnerable. I’m a woman with deep emotions who feels everything deeply. I wish I would mask my emotions due to pride or ego. I just gotta learn who to be vulnerable with.
Idk my hot take is that if you’re quick to be petty or do things to someone out of spite, you just don’t genuinely like that person 💀 nastiness shouldn’t come so easily to you like that
Being in your 30s is realizing you can actually just... leave. The relationship. The friendship. The room. The situation. You don’t need to stay anywhere that doesn’t feel good anymore.
I’ve realized a lot of men don’t actually like women being women anymore. A woman can’t complain without being negative can’t be sensitive without being dramatic, can’t express emotions without being told she doing too much. But let him shut down, snap, or act cold and suddenly everybody gotta understand his mood.
the sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. not just love you, but understand you,know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures; it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most
"I have a boyfriend" doesn't stop them.
"I’m married" doesn't stop them.
However, “I love luxury and expensive things"
that one clears the room every time.