Oxytocin maxing is realizing your nervous system probably doesn't need another strict morning routine. It needs more life. More laughter. More eye contact. More dancing in your kitchen while making breakfast. More long dinners with women you love. More cuddles.
More beauty. More pleasure without needing to earn it first.
Female bodies thrive in connection. Not constant cortisol.
Proximity is power. The closer you are to people living the kind of life you want, the faster you’ll get there. you’ll see how they think, how they move, and how they handle pressure. Being around that energy raises your standards and changes what you expect from yourself.
once you turn 20 you have to fight everyday for the rest of your life to not lose your personality & spirit...bc what once came naturally to you will be exhausted into nothing if you don't actively Try. it's terrifyingly easy to become a lethargic, soulless adult
everyone wants life to feel like sex and the city but no one wants to accidentally stay out way too late on a random weeknight or show up at a friends place unannounced
One thing nobody tells you about adulthood is how fun it is to become your own person. One day you randomly start liking jazz, olive green, expensive dark chocolate, documentaries about volcanoes, weird lamps, sparkling water, books about loneliness in Tokyo, silver jewelry and quiet cafés. Your personality keeps unfolding forever if you let it.